
FemDom & Holistic BDSM
Kink, BDSM, and fetish are extensions of revelry, a curious mind, and a lust for life. I love exploring your edges- between pleasure and pain, affirmation and denial, power and helplessness. I am more sought after for my skills as a sensual dominant rather than solely a hard, mean, cold, disciplinarian (but that sounds fun, too if it's more your flavor). My BDSM practice can be just for the love of it, or with a holistic twist. I'm a skilled somatic investigator and down to dig into the light and dark with you.
I can take control or be guided by your preferences.
Who I am seeking: curious, open-minded souls.
Eager to serve Me and listen with a detailed eye. Watch and learn. I love inspired, perverted, excited, creative, and compliant individuals who can speak their ideas, thoughts, and desires (even if that take some encouragement).
Maybe you want to learn something new about yourself, at the edge of pleasure, pain, bondage, submission, and Domination. Who are you when your autonomy is taken away? What's left of you? Who are you now?
Maybe you know exactly what you want and want to do it with me!
If this describes you, keep scrolling and read until the bottom of this page
Not interested in people who want to ask endless questions or need to interrogate if I will provide very specific, obtuse, and/or peculiar kinks instead of just being willing to vibe with me and explore our connection and chemistry.
I am WAY MORE FUN and open minded when you're not demanding with me.
Everyone plays together differently. We will have our own unique dynamic!
If you're not sure if we're the right fit, consider booking a consultation phone call. Let's talk about it.
I LOVE to play and I'm down to get weird.
I'm just not willing to entertain your fantasies on the phone without compensation!
My Tribute
1 hour fully clothed - 500
1 hour - 580
90 minutes - 800
2 hours - 1100
3 hours - 1500
4 hours (with dinner) - 2000
6 hours (with dinner and/or a date activity) - 3000
Extended Servitude
A full day into night, or an overnight...Imagine my chest donning the key to your chastity cage while we enjoy a night out on the town together... Being lead by Me as we hold hands. Being my cherished and toy or helpless bullied victim for hour after hour in and out of closed doors!
New York is our playground. Let's go see some live music, a comedy show, attend a BDSM play party downtown, haunt a museum, or my absolute favorite activity: get pampered at the spa. You'll also need to feed me, or else I might eat you :-)
12ish hours 4000
24 hours - 6500
In-Session Extension
600 per hr, if available
Couples
1.5x base rate
Professional Dungeons available in NYC:
Ridgewood (Queens)
Chinatown (Manhattan)



I can be sensual, like if a sweet girlfriend became really good at using a riding crop and rope. I love the sweetness and tenderness of merciful t*rture. It's not punishment, darling. It's exactly what you came to me for.
I'm careful, calculated, with attention to detail. I can be soft and playful if that's your pleasure.
Alternatively- I have been saying that meanness and corporeal punishment isn't the vibe, but the truth is that I'm something of an insatiable sadist and love to watch your suffer for me. I love when you want to please me by showing me how willing you are at accepting the consequences of my implements. I like good submissives who follow directions. Who are honored to follow my directions.
I would love to be regarded as your Mistress or goddess.
Worship my body in rubs and kisses. Paint my toes and then lie under my feet while they dry.
Fund my hobbies and wellness and pleasure.
Open your holes and empty your mind to being filled by me. I control you, just for now. And you'll miss it when I'm gone.
Submit to me. Become my good little slut. Take it. Love it. Bark for me :-)
My skills are quite versatile, and I greatly appreciate someone with imagination, desire, and openness.
You're also welcome to be "just curious", inexperienced, hesitant, shy, and not sure what you like. Let’s dream something up together.
As we only have so much time together, and my human energy is finite (though participation and aid of robots is welcome with prior discussion), please don’t expect that we will be able to combine more than a few of your interests together in one session. It's not always practical or realistic! That being said, I'm a maximalist so let's see what we can get done.
As always, conversation around boundaries and consent is required before hand.
I make no assumptions about your likes and dislikes – and as my company, you act in same.
We will stay focused on being in the moment together, one foot in front of the other, seeing where the road takes us... Sometimes things come up along the way--Maybe you need to call a time-out to snuggle or perhaps you find unexpected bliss in a particular moment and want it to keep lasting.
Yes
My current favorite activities include tease and denial, vibrators, ignore fetish, impact, and golden shower.
Here's a huge list of the things I happily offer as a top and Dominant.
Tools by request
needles, single tail whip. paddle, flogger, dildos, nJoy wands, butt plugs, rope bondage (no suspension), cuffs, sounding, medical staples, gags, short term chastity, wax play, mummification with plastic wrap, cock ring, spiky things, feathers
More than us
group domme sessions, forced/encouraged bisexual, cucking/voyeurs/audience to our fun
Pain and More
pegging, footing, fisting, nipple torture, CBT, sadism, impact, human furniture, spanking, fear play, dirty talk, acts of service, financial domination/human ATM/reimbursemen, servant, sensory deprivation, humiliation, genital torture, putting your skills to use, making you wait, edging, golden shower, group golden toilet, light medical play,
Role Play
Mommy domme, pet play, nurse, teacher, Boss, therapist, waitress, secretary
Gender
feminization and sissies, gender play, gender swapping, forced/encouraged bisexual
Body Worship & Fixation
hairy, manicure/pedicure, all things feet, vore, hole stretching, giantess, human f*ck toy, smooshing/stepping/trampling, face re-arranging, posing in positions
Apparel
spandex, dollification, denim, Rubber/latex, leather, lace, feet, stockings and fishnets, shoes, boots, shopping, costumes
Other
ecosexuality, tickling fetish, micromanaged cleaning servitude, sploshing/food play, balloons, object insertion, bubble blowing fetish (soap or gum), castration fetish, insemination fetish
NO
One of the most important tenants of BDSM is CONSENT
I do not consent to unpaid fantasy emailing or texting.
"No boundaries, do anything to me, I like everything" (fastest way not to meet me)
I am not a mind reader. You will have to use words to communicate your desires, at least initially. If you are unable or unwilling to do so, we are NOT a good match!
Also NOT seeking:
I do not wrestle.
-Demanding prissy little bitches (being demanding is MY role!), type-A or controlling nitpicking behavior (you are not the Domme, I am)
-Topping from the bottom (control freak behavior, no thanks)
-"Own me" before we have a long history together (I will own you when I want to make you Mine, not when you ask to be)
-Laundry list/check list (boring), expects play or acts beyond my bodily ability or safety
-Sulking when you don't get your way (huge turn-off)
-Needing constant digital attention (stealing my time from me)
-Sending me long emails explaining your whole life or s*xual history (more attempts for attention and taking up time I did not consent to).
Discussions over scenes, desires, and negotiations begin ONLY AFTER you’ve secured our time with a deposit. Any messages detailing your fantasies, asking questions I already answer on this website, or asking if I offer specific services will be regarded as a theft of my time which I do not look upon kindly. If you need to know more or if I offer specific services, you can book a consultation - $40 for 15 minutes.
Naturally.deviant@proton.me
Subject line "Consultation call"




